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First Sentence of "Future of Love" Summary


First Sentence of "Future of Love" Summary


Complete summary of "Future of Love"

"The Future of Love: Kiss Romance Goodbye, It's Time for the Real Thing" by Barbara Graham discusses the relationship between love and marriage. She traces the historical and cultural definitions of marriage to show that marriage being based on love is a recent idea. She then shows how the recent scientific evidence shows that biologically, love is fleeting, and thus not enough to base a long-term relationship on. Graham also indicates that counselors and authors have taken the romance out of romance and tried to make it scientific. She ends the essay by claiming that marriage-style relationships are changing, whether we like it or not.


Complete summary of "Future of Love"

The changing view of marriage and its connection to romantic love is the focus of "The Future of Love: Kiss Romance Goodbye, It's Time for the Real Thing" by Barbara Graham. Graham argues that our growing divorce and re-marriage rates indicate that our society is looking for something in marriages that it isn't finding. Her argument states that today's society tries to base marriages on love, when history shows us that marriages are designed for social and economic reasons, not romantic reasons. According to Graham, we keep studying the biology and sociology of love in marriage, ignoring the fact that a successful love relationship and a successful marriage are two different things.


Complete summary of "Future of Love"

Barbara Graham sees society's changing view of marriage as forcing society to realize that marriage and romantic love are not necessarily connected in her essay "The Future of Love: Kiss Romance Goodbye, It's Time for the Real Thing." First, Graham gives historical evidence that marriage had to do with economic and social needs of the culture, not love. Then, she explains how science shows that human biochemistry causes us to have short bursts of romantic longing primarily as a way of starting relationships, not prolonging them. The essay ends with a call to begin trying to understand the "new" form of non-marriage relationships that our culture is creating.


Complete summary of "Future of Love"

People have a need to be together as a couple, but not necessarily as a married couple, according to "The Future of Love: Kiss Romance Goodbye, It's Time for the Real Thing" by Barbara Graham. She discusses the fact that marriage has traditionally been for survival, not for romantic love as a way of supporting her claims. Graham cites scientific literature that indicates that romantic love is biologically short-term, not long-term. The essay ends by indicating that marriage as a social institution is dying, and "something radically different is needed."